“That’s what dries a writer up (we all dry up.
That’s no insult to you in person) not listening. That is where it all comes
from. Seeing, listening. You see well enough. But you stop listening. Forget
your personal tragedy. We are all bitched from the start and you especially
have to hurt like hell before you can write seriously. But when you get the
damned hurt use it—don’t cheat with it.” —
Ernest Hemingway, from a letter to F. Scott Fitzgerald dated 10 May 1934